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  • A Kiss Apart

    A Kiss Apart

    We’re just both here at the same room;
    Together but still we’re alone
    There isn’t any affection;
    We’re trying to get connections
    It’s good to hug your girlfriends’ heart,
    And look on her sweet loving eyes
    A warm caress and gentle kiss;
    Sharing the air we couldn’t breathe.
    But we are really miles apart;
    Defying love remain untold
    To the future it is behold;
    Shall I remain till I grow old?

    About A Kiss Apart

    This poem is just a mixed of my emotions from the different person I kindly like so much. It is a mere compilation of my thoughts about them. Honestly I wanted to write a birthday poem to Lutchie but it does not appear to be a birthday poem. If you want to ask about the gentle kisses, it’s for my friend who’s name is Ma. Lourdes. And I don’t know about the last part, because maybe it will turns to be Grace you.

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    Couple Kissing

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  • Tell the people in your life how you feel about them

    When was the time you express what you really feel? You are born to express what you feel and it is very true from the day you were born. You would not even care the people in your surrounding as we cry or laugh to what you want and what you feel. It is a very wonderful gift that you’ve lost as you grow. You learn different manners and you forgot to preserve the importance of sharing what would you like to speak in your heart.

    Tell the truth

    Do not lie to yourself and when you are saying something to anyone. The best way to communicate people is to be honest and detailed conversations. Tell them what you feel about, when you are happy and when you are sad. Never give false expectation, be honest and show who you are.

    Do not exaggerate stories

    Never add or change the real story. Too much sugar coat is not good because instead of appreciating your words they might think it as fake. You don’t have to hype people just to make them believe you. It is ok to be share with excitement but never to exaggerate it.

    Do not hide your problems

    Keeping problem will only prolong the situation. Speak to the right person for advice and to the person involve, so you can talk about the solution that can solve your problem. You can fix it alone but you can ask for help because there are people who care about you.

    Be sensible

    Telling the truth about people can really hurt feelings. Be careful in confronting people in different state of moods. Check the message if it is compromise to what people feels at the moment. Study your words because there is always a better way to deliver your message and in much appropriate way.

    What did you learn?

    • As written in the book, Speak up and you will be glad that you did.
    • There is always a better way to deliver your message in much appropriate ways.
    • Problem can be shared and the solution will can be find easily.

    You can make a difference.

    • Remember that you have the gift to express what you feel from the day you were born.
    • Be honest; speak in details and truth to communicate effectively.
    • Speak up and tell them that you really care, show it to them and you can make a difference.

  • Develop relationship with people before anything else

    Plant good seeds, grow them well so that you can have a good harvest. You have to take care of your relationship first and build a strong bond that will support each other. You can ask for help from strangers but it’s very unpredictable if they will give you a favor if you are asking for a big help. Basically you want to help people who are close to you rather than a stranger. Developing good relationship from the start can build strong relationship and become your reinforcement when you need them.

    A good relationship has the components of trust, understanding, appreciation, sharing and love. These things can create a very good and lasting relationship and happiness is easy to get.

    Make more friends and know about them by heart.

    Always give time for meeting new people and make friends with them. Each of your friend has different set of attitude, know their character and moods to know how to approach them nicely. Try to adjust your conversation in various situations. Their moods will tell you how you can make conversation with them and knowing their character can help you to avoid negative things for them. Recognize and appreciate people by heart and you can earn their trust.

    You can create happiness for free, share it.

    It is always good to get along with happy people. Laughter is the best medicine so it is another thing that you can share. You can distribute a good medicine from laugh. Laughter can help the lung muscle to get more oxygen and it also ease the pumping of the heart. It can also help to overcome pain and sadness at the moment. You can always remember the people who help you to turn the bad moods in to good moods. Happiness is priceless thing that everybody can share and you have to share your happiness and make a difference.

    Show how much you care and they will care for you.

    You can apply the Law of Giving. The more you give so shall you received. Every good thing you did for your friend will always be remembered. And most all people are going to pay back if the opportunity comes. There are many wealthy people who can testify the manifestation of the Law of Giving. I can give a few Leaders or Businessman who become wealthy by being generous. Henry Sy, Lucio Tan and Ayala provide more jobs and employment. They can help millions of Pinoy to find a job, and that is why they are blessed. Many of them become loyal and by showing how much you care you can make a difference.

    What did you learn?

    • A good relationship is not instant; you have to develop it by heart
    • Rich people are not greedy; They are found to be generously by giving job to millions of people.

    You can make a difference.

    • You can choose to be happy and make more friends, it is more fun anyway.
    • If they cannot buy your happiness then you are rich, make a difference by believing it.

  • Make Decisions with the Advantage of Long-Term Information Instead of the Disadvantage of Short-Term Information

    It easy to make decision when you can determine the benefits you can get. Be careful from short term information because you may not know what happens next. The good or bad things in your mind can cause you to decide. When you invest in stock market and notice that your investment is going to drop, the tendency is to withdraw your money because you have the fear of losing, while knowing the economic conditions and applying the long term information you might do the risk to buy more stock and gain more benefits in the future.

    Investing

    While if today the rate of gold and silver is going down, it is either you sell your gold or buy more. If you think of selling out your commodity and assume that you will lost the value of your precious metal then your decision is base only on the short term information but if you are going to buy more and take the advantage when it is cheaper, then your decision is base on a long term information. Buying commodity at low price is the opportunity to hedge its value for it become well in the future.

    Health

    Smoking and drinking alcohol can give benefit in some other ways. You can socialize and make more friends from it, but your health conditions are going to suffer in the future.

    Relationship

    Don’t engage into a relationship quickly especially when you felt the love at first sight. Modes and feelings can be overwritten in instance when you get to know more of the persons. Long term information is always important in making decisions when you are going to have a relationship. You have to know more of your partner and that cannot be done in a short period of time. The person can caught you by the first impression but sooner or later you can get disappoint as you get to know each other.

    Gadgets

    I love gadgets when it is new but I hate it when there is something better after few days. Have you experienced to buy gadgets and after few days something new is coming better than you bought. Most of the case gadgets is best for short term information because of the innovations, there is always something better in the future. You can apply long term information by checking the durability and quality of the products. You will buy the products because you can have it for the long time.

    If you fail to know all the information before you decide then it is hard to tell what is going to happens next. The risk is always there when you don’t know what you are doing.

    What makes a difference?

    • Making decisions is easy when you know the information.
    • Sometimes you have to wait or you have to decide quickly but you have to know the right information first.

    What did you learn?

    • Don’t decide when you are not sure about, information is important to avoid failure.

  • You Don’t Deserve My Tears

    My heart is no longer mine when I gave it to you. And it is always with you that’s why it hurts so much when you are being dishonest to me and the truth that you are lying to yourself. You can say you love me but you cannot express it. When you don’t let others know about our relationship, it looks like that you are not proud of me in front of them. It is very confusing why it is hard for you to tell something about us. I love you and I will always forgive you, I will understand you but! You don’t deserve my tears anymore…

    But we are only friends after all.

    I had loved you more to cover up the pain until I can’t hold my breath much longer. I said I love you forever but that time my life is already over.

    It is beyond my doubt and have convince myself to embrace and accept every reason you said. You may not perfectly the kind of girl I wanted, but here I am accepted you from the start willing and waiting for you to grow up.

    And after all the things you’ve done, I cried so many times. My eyes are crying, my brain is freezing, my heart is burning, and I don’t know where I am. I just see myself crying and shaking. Thank you for all the memories of love and joy we’ve shared. Thank you for I had the best you ever become and those happy moments we’ve been through.

    I can be happy loving you, but if you turn away from me, I will tell you again that I will never have to cry because you don’t deserve my tears.

    And we were only friends after all.

    tears
    Tears Of Joy, Tears Of Pain
    By Adina Ciment

  • Control Your Jealousy

    Don’t get jealous! The how you resist jealousy is how you keep tolerating the pain.

    When other people are having things that you wanted then you might jealous. Jealousy can be dangerous when you cannot control it.

    We get jealous by love or in a relationship with your partner because you think someone will take it away and we get jealous by materials things because you don’t have the things that other has.

    How to get over your jealousy?

    Breath the air, I know the feelings of getting nervous and the mixture of bad emotions, just breath the air to survive this. The next step will make you feel better. You have to know why you are being jealous and break it down to understanding. Keep on breathing. Jealousy is really hard to understand while anger and hate will pop up anytime when you can’t understand why. Relax and continue breathing.

    You have to visualized good thing to happen but don’t lie to yourself, if it is bad, it is really bad. Be thankful that you can prepare and plan to avoid it.

    Good communication can help. Be honest and tell what you feel. Listen and understand on the feedback. Sorry if you get jealous by mistake or intentions, humbly understand and forgive them anyway if you want to get over it.

    Trust is the best antidote for jealous but don’t put your trust on that person or materials, instead put your trust on God that what ever may happen you can smile at the end of the day. That person you trust can fail you and those things may never be yours. What you can always have is hope that God will never fail you. Trust God to get over your jealous. You may find your self more loving when you trust God.

    When you manage to control you jealous, then it becomes positive energy. It creates harmony in between. You become strong not to lose hope and feel better at the end of the day.

  • Offer free baby- sitting

    Have you tried to take care of your friend child or baby? Do you think it’s normal to offer baby sitting? It is normal but it is very rare or it comes once in a blue moon. We’re too busy yet we can make a difference by giving our extra time and effort for our friends. We can make difference to the person you ask to take care or help them to take care of their young.

    Working at home together with children will divide our time attending both of your job and responsibility. You have to leave what you are doing to attend the need of your children. As a friend it would be nice to visit your friends’ house for help. You can attend to baby-sit on watching TV while you let your friend finished some work.

    When your friend can’t bring their children on their work or appointment, offer your time to take care of them. It will be really nice to help and develop good relationship. Building relationship really make difference.

  • Love survives when you know the best for relationship

    If you are going to love someone you must like it first.

    It is hard to make love when you don’t like it. The love becomes artificial and may never last longer. Sometimes we don’t see the difference between loves and likes. Like is focus on the things we want and love is acceptance. This is such a very simple formula for longer and lasting relationship.

    Breakup

    This happens when the relationship pause or end. What can you feel about this? Have you experienced it already? We want to reconcile, fix or save the relationship as early as possible. In the end understanding why we need breakup is important. When you understand everything it will be easy for you to move on or get back.

    Move on and get over.

    I’ve been in the situation of saving relationship. Don’t let your like become greater than love or you will bad hurting yourself. The things you like are sometimes will never be yours and it hurts when you know that you can never have it. Love is something that you can accept and understand why; love can save you from bad feelings and emotions to get over.

    Love save us from hurts

    My breakup with my first girlfriend and to move on is a very hard decision. I like her very much that I wanted her to become my wife and I love her to make her happy. I only find myself chasing her because I like her as I want and later I realize to show how much I love here when I accept to let her go and be happy apart from me. Love hurts when you don’t know how to give and accept.

     

    Ask yourself. Why letting go of someone hurts? You might only like her, it turns you out to become selfish, bring more frustration and pain. This happens when you think only for yourself and never understand why you have to let go. Be careful that your emotion may shift to hate anger and grudge when you don’t get what you want.

     

    It is very easy to let go of someone you really love. There is always a reason for every let go. You can understand and accept it when you know the person you love will be more good and happier. It will surely hurt but you can recover fast because you know it is the best for both of you.