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  • Be careful not to over commit.

    Try to swallow while your mouth is too full. You will get choke when you can’t accommodate. Understand this and you can relate what it is mean not to over commit.

    It’s nice to make a commitment but you have to comply what it is.  Commitment gives challenges that you must be prepared.

    Learn To Say No

    One cannot manage too many affairs; like pumpkins in the water, one pops up while you try to hold down the other. – Chinese Proverb

    Learn when to say yes and when to say no. You have to know what you can do in due time so you can be confident enough give your commitment. Commitment is a responsibility that you must take care and attend.

    Think before you commit

    You must know what you’re doing more importantly if you are giving your commitment to others. You have to say it clear the level of your commitment. Like “I try, I do my best, and I do whatever it takes” most people succeed when they commit whatever it takes. People who try may quit soon enough when they get tired and people who do their best can fail when the best they exert is not good enough.

    A commitment is important ingredients of success.

    In relationship, marriage is a failure without a commitment. Sometime it is weird that the minister asks if you love each other for better or worst. It is a common sense that they want to get marriage and obviously they love each other. This is because the minister and witness want to ask your commitment.

    Commitment is the blood of your business, without it your business die. As long as you keep on doing the right things and committed to grow your business then success is right there.

    Remember the level of your commitment and make it clear. Don’t commit for a false hope, being honest to what you can give and do whatever it takes can make a difference.

    What did you learn?

    • There are three level of commitment, “I try, I do my best, and do whatever it takes.”
    • Think before you commit to avoid giving false hope.

    You can make a difference

    You can be successful by reaching your goals whatever it takes.

  • Change what you can. Accept what you can’t

    Lord, grant me the strength to change the things I can, the serenity to accept the things I cannot, and the wisdom to know the difference.

    Change our self first.

    Many people thinks that they are not capable of doing something different, they want to solve problems which is out of their control. We want to change the world as we think, but we forget to change our self first.

    Time invites you to move on; those times are not meant for your success because you are not yet prepared. Learn to accept what you cannot do today but you can do it on the right time.

    Most people are giving their time to solve the problem that they can’t usually solve. Let the Government Issues be solved by the government. You very are lucky if you are the person who has the voice to influence. Instead try to do something within your control. If you want to increase your income then sell something. Stop complaining and rather find a customer because you can do something by yourself to increase your income. It is easier to sell one product at a time than to convince the government to increase your salary. Selling products at a time is within your control and you can sell more if you want make more money as you can.

    Don’t blame the government when the flood and other disasters come to your home while you can move to another place. If you say that it is the only home you can stay then you will live in that place forever. But when you change your thinking to live on a better place and locations then you are now starting to control your life conditions. You will get a new idea how you can leave that kind of place and move to your new ideal home. You may not find the answer now but when you started to think you already starting to move on.

    Forming a good habit can help you to make things easy. As you are part of this world, your changes will affect the world too. If you want to make everybody rich and wealthy then make yourself prosperous first. Then you can teach others to do the same. I hope this make sense for all the people who want to change the world by starting to change themselves first.

    What did you learn?

    • The world will be change as you change because you are part of the world.
    • You cannot control the calamity but you can do something to prevent it.
    • I can sell something to make an extra income. That makes sense if you want to make more money.

    Let’s make a difference.

    • While others are busy blaming others, start being responsible and solve the problem that you can solve.
    • Don’t waste your time solving the problem of the world or government, solve your problem first.

     

  • We can be anything

    Before we become something that we want, we have to create it first in our mind and we can do that by thinking. We can be anything. Our mind can create the idea into reality and it become possible depending on your capacity and how you truly believe.

    You cannot be anything if you never tried the things you must do. Good education starts when you study hard. Practice makes it perfect. I never heard human baby’s walked after birth we always start by thinking and trying.

    I like “We can be anything” campaign and the video perform with the lead singer Allan Pineda.

    This movement is to encourage everyone that there is something we can do to make a difference, to change and to improve our life.

    We can be anything.

    There are many people who become famous and successful. They become the person of their dreams. We are aspiring to become what we want to be. Thanks for the successful person who share their blue print on how they get their goals. What I mean is you don’t have to invent your success when you can copy and improve how that successful person did it. Their advice are good information and their biography can be your inspirations. We can learn from their experienced that we don’t have yet.

    When the teacher in the classroom asked the students the answer for one plus one (1+1=?). You can raise your hand to answer that because you strongly believe that you know the answer is one. Same things in life! When you believe that you can get a good grade you will study hard and when you know you can do it, we take action.

    What did you learn?

    • Nothings happen if you don’t try to take action.
    • We can learn from other experience.
    • You will be move by your believe.

    You can make a difference

    • All people can be anything but only few understand how. You can take action while others are still dreaming.
    • We have to think, apply what we learn and try again.

  • Keep in Mind that Circumstances Don’t Make a Person, They Reveal Him.

    We become the person and the product of our experienced. This topic explains what come first, Attitude or Success? Every successful man has the right attitude to achieve his goal. It is hard to become successful when we don’t have the winning attitude.

    We want to become successful but first we must engage with circumstances. We can call it a test that shows who we are as we failed or succeed in the end. A circumstance is a mirror that shows how you react and reveal who you are. That experience will transform to become who you are weather you learn or not. Looking at the mirror don’t change anything, I only shows who you are. What important is to learn from what you see. Being prepared at any given situation can help you handle or solve the problem and sometimes it’s already solved, we just have to pass thru it. The circumstances will reveal if you are really prepared or not.

    Attitude can be mold by circumstances. Circumstances is constantly shaping your character, we adjust ourselves when we see us bad or good at the current situations. We can choose what we become and known for who we are.

  • Avoid Negative Thinking

    no negative thoughts allowed
    No negative thoughts allowed

    Why people think positive or negative? It is the influence from what we believe. We start to believing on our thoughts that are constantly emerging in our mind. How can we avoid negative thinking? By knowing the reason or the root cause can help you understand. We can either think positive or negative but pay attention where will you get benefits most.

    Why think negative when you know it isn’t good?

    The best thing you can do about negative thinking is just being aware but never put your whole attention to it. Find a diversion and think positive. Make it a good habit of seeing things positively.

    We attract what we think, just like the law of attraction.

    Whey you try to think of bad or good things that you don’t want; you are creating the possibility to make it happen. The vision you create in your mind can be a blue print of what can be.

    An anxious heart weights a man down, but a kind word cheers him up. – Proverbs 12:25

  • Teach me Kung-Fu

    The old mates at age of 60’s are fishing on the river and on the other side a kung-fu student are practicing his lesson although he already master at his level. He is so proud that he is the strongest among all the students.

    After the lesson ends, the students are watching old mates fishing while they find something unusual. One of the old mates went to crossover the river to urinate, they see the old man just running over the water to cross the river, and get back after. They saw another one to crossover the river and went back to fishing.

    One pupil become boastful then he attempt to try and said that if the old man can do, I can do it too, and the boastful pupil tries to crossover the river. The students were panicking when they notice that their friend is drowning. They ask the old man to save the life of the classmate.

    bridge pole
    bridge pole

    After the old man save him, the students were asking how they can easily crossover the river without drowning, and what kind of kung-fu is that. The old man laugh, There is no kung-fu technique, did you know that ten years ago there was a bridge over there, the bridge is gone but the pole are still there where we use to step to crossover the river. If you ask us first you probably crossover easily and not been drown.

    Learning from the experience of others is the shortest way to success. Following the footsteps of successful people is the fastest way to become successful.

  • The Newbie Frog Secrets

    There is a deep well with a flock of frogs live. Over a year they stay and die on that place. For them getting out of that well is impossible like elders tried many times to get out. One day a little frog are wondering what’s good about the world outside and he begin to jump and get out. The elders keep on discouraging the little newbie frog for it is impossible to get out.

    Stop about dreaming that you can make it, we are already old enough to say that you can’t do it.

    The newbie frog keep on jumping and soon one day he will know the world outside, while the other frogs keep on telling him to stop acting that it will never going to happen. But the frog did it and said;

    Thank you for cheering me up!

    What it is the frog skills that he manages to get out that well even if he receives much discouragement?

    You may tell all the positive attitude of a successful people like being brave, perseverance, courageous, hardworking, smart, determine, and other positive traits of a successful individual.

    But what is Newbie frog skill that he manage to control his attitude?

    The newbie frog secret is that he can’t hear anything that he just thinks the other frog is cheering him instead of discouraging him. It help him to focus his goals and become successful.