Author: dlysen

  • Get Mileage out of Reflection

    Looking back to what happen to you can push you more forward. It is like famous quotes “sharpening the saw” I read in the book “The seven habits of highly effective people” by Stephen F. Covey. You find the benefits of knowing how you get here and understanding your strength and weakness.

    Find yourself on things you can do well and things that you need to learn much more. When you reflect yourself, observe and find the answer of why you get there. When you have analysis on your reflection you can do more best on the next time around.

    The reflection in my life that I always wanted to go back is the day I learn how to smile. There is inevitable mood of feeling bad and the way how I manage to smile and understand that process is the best reflection I always observe. The day I lost my first phone model is “Asus v8” I bought from my first credit card. It is lost it and its not yet fully paid. Imagine what you can feel if it was your first. Sure you feel bad, but how I make myself learn to smile is a different point of my life. I know that I become careless on riding a public transport MRT.  And when something is taken out to you something will replace or fills in back. Nothing will be lost now if you have none but a things to have.

    You my lost your friends for a reason but you know someone can understand you better. Find a reflection where you can see yourself happy in the end. We make reflection to brighten up the way.

    You can also find some reflection from others; you can adopt or relate some situation from your friends, or others. We can take more visual experience and imaginary solutions as we observes and learn from their experience.

  • Experience Relaxed Passion

    There are three kind of passion! 1) The Hyper Passion, 2) I Love This As Long as Everything’s Works out well, and 3) The Relaxed Passion. I had experience all of these kind of passion but I never understand and get aware of it until I wanted to make a difference. We are used to do something that we love but never utilized what make grow more and productive.

    Hyper passion is something like that you love to do as long as you are excited and motivated. You will get tired in the end when you feel like it’s not worthy or not being appreciated.

    I love this as long as everything’s work out! This happen in most relationships and it ends if doesn’t work out as simple as that. You love each other until something went wrong for a reason that your relationships did not work out. I applies to my band mate too. I had a band that so aggressive to play and get together by music. I become a member of the band that never last long because I had some better plan to do so.

    Relax passion! It’s the best way to live with. When you can enjoy the hardest part of it. You love what you are doing and you are happy for it. Relax passion must be in your natural ways of living like you love to be with the people you care. Having a work using the talent that you have, like being a chief if you love to cook or a singer if you love to sing. You can’t be relax if they asked you to sing but you are lack of singing talent.

    Relax passion saves so much time and energy because you already know what you are doing. It is like driving on the same road over a year, some changes my happen but you can manage. It saves time and energy and it’s nice to be efficient at your relax passions.

  • Learn The Magic of Non-attachment

    The first time I’ve heard this advice is from the book of “Happiness In A Nutshell” by Andrew Mathews says about;

    The moment you get too attached to things, people, money … you screw it up!

    This book “Don’t Worry Make, Make Money” tells about what happens when you attach yourself to nothing. It shows that non attachment gives freedom and a win-win situation whatever the outcome of your doing.

    My personal experience on making myself nonattached is like offering or giving free services. Whatever the outcome of my services will never be a failure because I did give all my best but when I satisfied my customer that’s the real good story.

    What about if commitment is concerns? It does not mean that non-attachment is not making a commitment. Doing this kind of tricks has the same goals with commitment and that is to make things delivered. It’s the way how you do it and make it.

  • Give, Give, Give

    I understand the importance of giving when you feel good of doing it. You feel bad when you give not wholeheartedly and it makes me feels a part of me is taken. When some part of you is taken definitely you feel incomplete and being incomplete is really bad. But when you give wholeheartedly noting in the part will be missing and you will feel the joy completely as you give.

    When somebody borrowed something to me, I assume that I already give it and expect never to return or I will never let them borrow. It’s my fault if they can give it back because it let them borrowed. Hoping them the return the favor will only gives you bad mood, but recognizing the big help you give can make you proud of what you did.

    The old books says that when you give it will return a hundreds folds, just give and you will receive. Be careful of what you give, good and bad things must be consider. You cannot expect good things if you give a bad things.

  • Remember that the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step

    This phrase always been to my mind since I was a nine years old. I saw this line on a notebook cover and love to read it. Since then I am thinking of baby’s step as I interpret to myself. Everything here on earth has a beginning.

    I start blogging this book and I don’t know when I’ll be finished. What I have as of the moment is the vision that I can learn along the way and gain afterwards. Thinking of what lies ahead is a first step of creations. Things start to process when you think of it, when the universe is fit to it, it will be done.

    Take the first step and there will be next. Soon enough, just don’t quit and your goals will be fulfill.

  • Don’t Worry Make Money by Richard Carlson

    I like to share what I’ve learned inside the “Don’t Worry, Make Money” by Richard Carlson, Ph. D. It can be our guide to “spiritual and practical ways to create abundance and more fun in your life.”
    I bought this book last April 28, 2010 in BOOKS AND MAGS store. The store is located in Walter Mart, Pasong Tamo St, Makati.
    I link my story related to the topic given inside the book. I share my personal experience and explain what I’ve understand about it. I hope you find my stories very interesting.

    1. Remember that the journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step
    2. Give, Give, Give
    3. Learn the Magic of Non attachment
    4. Experience Relaxed Passion
    5. Get Mileage Out of Reflection
    6. Pay Yourself First
    7. Accept the Fact that You Can Make Excuses, You Can Make Money, but You Can’t Do Both
    8. Don’t Deal With Problems, Transcend Them
    9. Learn About Moods and Money
    10. Consider the Possibility that If It Sounds Too Good to Be True, It Might Not Be
    11. Hire Up
    12. Don’t Worry About the Market – Invest it In
    13. Become Less Reactive and More Responsive
    14. Work on “Knowing” Instead of “Believing”
    15. Remind Yourself that Your Life Begins Now
    16. Surround Yourself with Experts
    17. Be Aware of What You Don’t Know and What You’re Not Good At.
    18. Become Aware of the Passion Factor
    19. Experiment With the One-Hour Solution
    20. Be Prepared to Walk Away from Negotiation – You Can Usually Go Back
    21. Be Willing to Change
    22. Spend the Bulk of Your Time on the “Critical Inch” of Your Business or Project
    23. Express Your Gratitude Toward Others
    24. Leave a Great Impression (Not Just a Good One)
    25. Maintain Wealth Consciousness
    26. Wait for Inspiration
    27. Use the Power of Reflection
    28. Laugh at Your Mistake (and You Won’t Repeat Them)
    29. Take Your Lunch
    30. Ask For What You Want
    31. Short Circuit Your Reaction Spirals
    32. Eliminate Your Most Self-defeating Belief
    33. Keep in Mind that Circumstances Don’t Make a Person, They Reveal Him
    34. Form a Winning Partnership
    35. Let Go of Fearful Thoughts
    36. Think BIG!
    37. Make Decisions with the Advantage of Long-Term Information Instead of the Disadvantage of Short-Term Information
    38. Know When to Bet, When to Hold, and When to Fold
    39. Change What You Can, Accept the Things You Can’t
    40. Develop Relationships with People Before You Need Something from Them
    41. Be Aware of Your Unique “Stacking Order”
    42. Don’t Panic!
    43. Create from the Inside Out
    44. Banish Your Doubt
    45. Know the Secret to Silence
    46. Sock Away Two Years of Living Expenses
    47. Give Up Your Fear of Disapproval
    48. Keep a List of Bargain Shopping Places in Your Purse or Wallet
    49. Don’t Rely on Too Much Date
    50. Find a Mentor
    51. Delight in the Success of Others
    52. Ask Yourself, Where Is This Decision Likely to Lead?
    53. Remember the Golden Rule
    54. Don’t Be Frightened to Ask for Referrals
    55. Know that the Idea “Opportunity Only Knock Once” Is a Big Myth
    56. Look for Expenditures that Might Be Made Cooperatively Instead of Individually
    57. Shop Carefully with Your Vacation Dollars
    58. Decide Carefully Between a Fixed and Variable Interest Rate on your Home Mortgage
    59. Buy Large Deductive Insurance
    60. Whistle While You Work
    61. Encourage Creativity in Others and Have Faith in Them
    62. Don’t Give Away your Power
    63. Charge What You Are Worth
    64. Listen, Really Listen
    65. Cultivate Humor and Learn to Smile
    66. Start a Buyers Club
    67. Build Up a Large “Trust Fund”
    68. Sell the Sizzle, Not the Steak
    69. Go Ahead and Do It
    70. Be Willing to Take Advice
    71. Ask Yourself, What Have I Contributed to This Problem?
    72. Consider that Wisdom May be Even More Important that IQ
    73. Eliminate the Words “I’m Not a Salesperson” from Your Vocabulary
    74. Consider that Busyness Gets in Your Way
    75. Think About Purple Snowflakes
    76. Stay Out of Reverse
    77. Let Go of the Fear that If You’re Relaxed or Happy, You’re Going to Fail
    78. Be Aware of Positive Burnout
    79. Dive In
    80. Just Once, Try Something Different
    81. Help Someone Else Succeed
    82. Persevere
    83. Consider the Wisdom of Optimism
    84. Hold on Tightly, Let Go Lightly
    85. Be Willing to Apologize
    86. Lighten Up
    87. Remember that Everything Is Used the Day After You Buy It
    88. Keep in Mind that Cheaper Is Not Always Better
    89. Don’t Be Afraid to Take Baby Steps
    90. Remind Yourself that Your Life Isn’t Your Enemy, but Your Thinking Can be
    91. Just Do It
    92. Resist the Temptation to Continually Raise Your Standard of Living
    93. Start a Car Pool
    94. Have a Plan
    95. Don’t Get Lost in Your Plan
    96. Stop Commiserating
    97. Work at It
    98. Create Your Own Luck
    99. Don’t Forget to Have Fun
    100. Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff! Suggest Reading

    As I read the book, I will write my opinion, how I feel about it or how I put myself to it and what I’ve learn and add to it. If you have this book too, please share something you have in mind.

  • Offline Traffic Generation

    I want to share my experience how I get more traffic online using newspaper ads, but paying advertisement on news paper is much more expensive than online ads. Don’t worry it will not cost you much money as you think. You will only need a little time and extra money to buy a popular newspaper in your place.

    Honestly I just recently discover how I maximize the traffic on every landing page I create. It’s time to increase your Adsense revenue or any pay per click ads on your website.

    Here is one of my experience when FJT Online.com published and ads on Job Finder, I received more traffic. I feel amazing that the news paper ads is very effective but the cost the pay for that ads is almost P20,000.00 and the traffic multiply when they put an ads on Manila Bulletin one of the leading and most read newspaper in Manila for the cost of P33,152.00 1/6 page Sunday rate. Imagine how much money you lose if you try this.

    Now let’s analyze what happen. FJT Online put ads worth that much and gets traffic. Why? The ads contain web site, a link, and keywords that readers will go to research on the internet and this is a clue. Try to blog an article that you can read about in the newspaper and you will see that some traffic will goes to your site. Most ads in the newspaper are short that you need to find more information online so they tend to look in the internet. The regular keyword that FJT Online use is “Go Abroad In 75 Days”

    Here are the tips I can give. You can copy the keyword that we have and the best tips I can share now, that I recently discover is we can use also other ads competitors’ keywords.The other ads that we use to see. In your case you can use all the ads you think that need or short of information that readers have to research it more online. Some of them don’t have a website yet and it’s our chance to still the traffic.

    A legitimate way and not obvious way to still traffic is to make a review about them. Tell about something or what can you say about that company or the ads you read? It’s nice to give positive information and insight and it will reflect all the content of your blogs.

  • How to make money on the internet without a website?

    On the first era of the internet it is mainly use for information sharing. It supplements in promoting and advertising.

    Most of us think that only those who have own a website can only make money online. People make money on the internet by selling, promoting and referring to buying customer to a merchant. It’s ok if you are incapable of having a website as of the moment. For some reason you can buy a worth of a website but you’re not capable of buying because of the requirements sending money. To cut the story most of us don’t have a credit card or tools use to buy online.

    Let’s now make money online without having a website.
    There are a lots of thing you can sell online were they will provide you a referral link to acknowledge your sales. This is what you called the affiliate marketing where you promote a product that gives you a referral bonus after sales. You can use your social media accounts to talk about the things you are selling and give the referral link for your sales.

    Register to a Merchant that offers affiliate incentives.
    Commission junction
    Esellerate
    E-junkie
    Envato
    Amazon
    Etc
    This list can offer you a affiliate link that give incentives ever sales you refer.

    Where to put your Affiliate link?
    Use your social media networking like facebook, friendster, myspaces, twitter and more to promote your products link. You don’t have to have a personal website to do this. All you have to do is to promote the links you have in your page and let them buy.

    Dlysen offers affiliate link where you can make money by following the steps here. Affiliate guide