Author: dlysen

  • Avoid Negative Thinking

    no negative thoughts allowed
    No negative thoughts allowed

    Why people think positive or negative? It is the influence from what we believe. We start to believing on our thoughts that are constantly emerging in our mind. How can we avoid negative thinking? By knowing the reason or the root cause can help you understand. We can either think positive or negative but pay attention where will you get benefits most.

    Why think negative when you know it isn’t good?

    The best thing you can do about negative thinking is just being aware but never put your whole attention to it. Find a diversion and think positive. Make it a good habit of seeing things positively.

    We attract what we think, just like the law of attraction.

    Whey you try to think of bad or good things that you don’t want; you are creating the possibility to make it happen. The vision you create in your mind can be a blue print of what can be.

    An anxious heart weights a man down, but a kind word cheers him up. – Proverbs 12:25

  • Ask for what you want.

    We are born to ask for what we want. Did you know what it means when a newly born child cry? They ask for something that they can’t say but to cry. As we grew up, we forgot how asking is very effective way to get what we want.

    Ask knowing and believing that you can hope or have it is important. How can you ask for something that you can’t trust or hope for? It’s waste of time to convince yourself that it will happen even if you have a doubt. It can be once in a blue moon. Believing 100 percent it can’t be an assurance. So why give a doubt on the things that you want when you know that you can have it.

    It is better to forget things that you want when at the same time you don’t believed to have it.

    It is also applies to the law of attractions. You attract what you want and your thought become things.

  • Do not judge the book. Buy it

    I bought inspirational books today.

    • The girl’s guide to loving yourself
    • You Go, Girl… Keep Dreaming
    • A Grateful Path

    We say “Don’t judge the book by its cover.” but I bought these books because the front and back cover are interesting.

    A Grateful Path looks so inspiring. The cover shows the road, house and children’s and I am curious about it the meaning of it. I bought two pieces of it, one for me and the other will be a gift for someone in the future.

    You Go, Girl… Keep Dreaming, a special book about always believing in yourself. When I hold this book, I like the cartoon and the typography. The message about believing in yourself is what I always wanted to read. I might learn the different approach on how to believe in yourself.

    The girls guide to loving yourself, a book about falling in love with the one person who matters most… You. It’s the same thing I like above, the cover and the cartoon graphics. But this time I want to know about loving yourself. We fall in love with others how about falling in love with yourself.

    I got the receipt from Chapter and Pages Corporations located at east wing of Robinson Galleria, Ortigas.

    I have four books at the end of the day two copy of A Grateful Path and each of The girl’s guide to loving yourself and You Go, Girl… Keep Dreaming. 

  • Taxpayers Alliance of the Philippines Inc. – TAPI

    For several decades in the past, Taxpayers were in perplexed about being tax compliant. Rules and regulations were written and available however interpretation of law application was obscured. More often Taxpayers succumbed to what the authorities dictate. It was the era when tax consultants were scarce and to top it all – only a few could afford to pay their services.

    They teach good practice how to handle tax and regulations to become more responsible citizen with outmost fairness, honesty, and transparency.

    The guiding principle of TAPI is “Serving taxpayers with highest Integrity and Professionalism is serving God and Nation”

    If you are one the list below, TAPI can help you.

    • Those who are frequently recipient of LOA, TVN, LN and other BIR audit notices.
    • Those who want to have full knowledge in handling BIR audit notices.
    • Those who always subject for Tax Mapping

    Taxation – the most burden of every taxpayer. In the process, even compliant and law abiding taxpayers have to go through the audit ordeal to prove their innocence. The burden of proof is generally on the taxpayer.

    You can visit their website to get more details and information at http://taxpayersallianceph.com

  • Choose friends of various ages in varying situations.

    Life without friends seems to be incomplete. Imagine a world without them and no one cares about you. Having many friends is good. They can help and care about even if you don’t need them. It is wise to choose friends of good influence.

    Friends of various ages can give also different answer when you ask advice. Ask the elder and you get their experience and ask the younger and you get what they think about, “new idea, concept, innovations, etc.” If you are planning to know how to become successful ask the elder, they already know how to get there. Be with the youth to get curious and explore more.

    Friends gives flavor to our life, It can influence us, so be careful. They can turn us up and down. “Tel me who your friend is and I tell you who you are.” This quote is realistic for those people that can be easily influence.

    Let me share the group of friends that I interact regularly.

    • INC Brethren – We see each other in Worship Service and many religious activities.
    • Bloggers – I may not often meet them but we are connected online 24/7 via internet.
    • Band Mates – When I want to express my emotions on music, I makes me feel good and great
    • Businessmen – Where I learn how to set goals and Dream Big.

    Every group has different qualities and uniqueness. We must know how to face different situations, sometimes when I feel hopeless; I go to Church and ask spiritual advice; I am learning from my partners in business how to have nice and decent income. We have to choose friends from various situations to get the right advice. Don’t expect to get more accurate answer when you ask the wrong person.

    Life Advneture Planner with Jopet Pedroso

    Acquaintance I would have, but when it depends not on the number, but the choice of friends. – Abraham Cowley

  • Be on time

    wasting time

    There are many benefits of being on time. It avoids the negative impact of the delay and easily manages schedule. Time will never stop and wait, it goes on come what may. It’s our job to keep up on time or we find our self left behind.

    Scheduling can help your task on time. Having so many tasks can ruin your time management because we only have 24 hours per day to be exact. It is important to know each task because you can determine how long it will be. Now you can able to adjust your time schedule carefully. Being punctual is an attitude that will keep you on time. Don’t forget to check the surrounding and the weather, it can also cause of your delay.

    To keep yourself on time

    • Know your task – it will give you the idea how long it is.
    • Schedule – it will avoid overlapping task and time conflict
    • Attitude – be punctual and don’t be lazy. Your attitude will keep you moving.
    • Surrounding and climate – bad weather and not appropriate surroundings can cause delay.
    • Don’t think late – when you think you are late, it will manifest and the feeling of being late only brings bad vibes.
    • Just think that you’re just in time and it will make you not to worry.

    We are trained to be on time when we are set to school. We did not get in the school without preparations. That preparation is how we manage to be on time. Without preparations, we have the tendency to be late. Task and time management is one of the key to keep up on time.
    Plan your 24 hours or daily routine. It is a very good habit. Plot your task in time table make a plan.
    I miss my healthy time schedule when I was on elementary.

    • 6am – wake up and prepare for school
    • 7am – 3 pm : Study time
    • 3pm – 6pm : play at the beach, fetch wood, bring pale of water in full, watch sunset
    • 6pm – 7pm : must be at home, clean, do home work “not school assignment” just help at home.
    • 8pm – must be sleeping.

    Now my schedules are more on appointments and doing my project done on time.

    There is one kind of robber whom the law does not strike at… who steals what is most precious to men: time – Napoleon I

    Someone else’s time is a terrible thing to waste.

  • Refuse to hold grudges

    When you feel hate, grudges will come along and we must be careful of our actions. It flames up your anger and turns us bad. It is hard to avoid grudges but we can do something about it. Grudges give bad emotions and you carry it not until you’ve let go.

    Happy person don’t hold grudges and wise enough to learn that grudges are for the people who can’t let go of sad things or experience. Forgiving can take away your grudges and that is the best way I know.

    When we cause other peoples grudges? Be the first to humble down and ask forgiveness. It can lessen the hate and make them easily to forgive.

    Avoid before it happens. We are not perfect that sometimes people don’t like what happen. By understanding, we can control our emotion well and giving considerations allow them to do the right things. Managing our emotions can handle our grudges to let go.

    I don’t want to end this topic without sharing my personal experience. What can you feel when you are giving love to someone that loves you back untruly? It is like having a fake relationship that will never last. I have to know where the pains of grudges come from. The pain of letting go can heal faster than the pain of being cheated. I don’t have any benefits on my grudges. I also remember when my friend borrowed my Eraser Heads “Cutterpillow” album that was never returns. I have now in mind that when I let someone borrows my things; I assume it was already given, so that I won’t hold any grudges on them.

    What did you learn?

    Grudges is a rewards you get when you hate someone so much, It is up to you to received it.

    You can make a difference.

    You can avoid having grudges because its normal and you can make a difference when you can learn to let it go quick. You don’t need grudges in your life.

  • Ideas Divine International

    Do you want to become a leader with good results in Networking Business or in the industry you belong? If you are looking for a business or personal coach in getting your goal, how willingly do you want to be train?

    Way back 10 years of doing Networking Business up to this year of 2011, we can observe what happen to our industry. Distributors are often invited in a new company to start marketing their products. Network builders are important for a starting company. They are the partners in the business who make the products sold out to the market. Sales can increase by team work and leadership. The company with a highly train distributors make good income as well as the company gain more profit.

    Not all distributors are good from the start. They need to learn and develop skills. The right attitude and good habit are important to become successful. Ideas Divine International can help us in achieving our personal and organization growth. They provide a high quality training to get the result that you want.

    The brilliant ideas of Divine Asperin can give more hope for the distributors to achieve more goals. Its contribution to the networking industry is to help and guide distributors by sharing the training and experience they have acquire being a successful entrepreneur.

    You can visit Ideasdivine.com to check all event and schedules of trainings. The passion of Divine Asperin to help all distributors may serve as good inspiration and let others know that Networking or Multi Level Marketing Industry is great.

    I attended the 3rd batch of Jopet Pedroso’s “Life Adventure Planner 2011” on the 2nd day of March. It is very intensive workshop for achieving goals or the result that you want. This training is one of the programs of Divine Ideas International and more to come.